With divorce comes ups and downs. Sadness, anger, disbelief, denial, grief … the ups and downs come in all shapes and sizes. And there’s only one thing that you can control … and that is you and how you handle it. I think it’s safe to assume that when it is said and done you’d like to look in the mirror and know in your head, and heart, that you navigated your path the best that you could. Setting yourself up for success looks like having a posse of people that can help you prepare for what is coming and guide you towards your best you because while you are sitting in the muck of divorce it is hard as hell to choose kindness. And yes, it is without question, a choice.
You will be angry and you will grieve. You will be given lessons over and over and you can either explore them and grow from them or get stuck in the muck and wallow in anger. When you are sitting in grief, denial, or utter confusion – which you will – how do you navigate conversations with your children, maintain your career, make significant financial decisions, attempt to see the light at the end of the tunnel? You reach out. You call on experts. You connect with people who genuinely care about helping you divorce better than everyone else. And the “better than everyone else” boils down to connecting with some experienced, caring experts that give a shit.
This is what makes us different. We care. We care about emotional wellness and how divorce affects children. If your emotional wellness is being tended to everything else falls into place. This is what we do … we help you see clearly. We help you prepare for all of the touch points through the course of divorce that will indeed test you. If you have clarity and know that separation is right for you, it will catch you off guard when you drop your child off at a birthday party and are overwhelmed with what feels like judgement everywhere you look. This is what we do … we help you prepare, navigate and come out the other side with your emotional wellness in tact. It’s not an easy path so having genuine, experienced guidance is a big win … for the entire family.
Most of us haven’t been taught how to establish and maintain healthy boundaries, what our patterns are and how they impact our everyday, or how to embrace hurt so that it leaves us better. How do you pick up the pieces? How do you cull every painful moment into an opportunity to see the real you? How do you peel yourself up off the floor and send your kids off to school with a smile? How do you choose happy over anger? How do you show up for you when you are stuck in the muck … spinning in anger and pain? You reach out and call us. We can help you navigate divorce while holding your head high and doing right by your family.
Emotional wellness is the foundation to all other wellness. If you are stressed it overflows into your work, your friendships, your health … your life. We have a process that helps you in every way … we know divorce and we know that it can be done with less anger and hostility. You just need to ask yourself if you do indeed want a joy filled life at the end of it all …?